Cheated on wife 6 months ago unprotected with a sex worker. Have had 2 test 1) 4th gen ab/ag and and Oraquick test at 3 and 6 months respectively. I am paranoid still I have HIV because of seronegative people. My wife has lost like 40lbs and has butterfly rash on face. I have general malaise, sore throat reoccurring, small circular rashes on arms and legs, and I have had what seems like thrush because of extreme dry mouth and yellow/white spots that bleed when brushed. My possible seroconversion symptoms seemed to start 3 months after sex, a bad cold, sore throat, swollen lymph nodes, and drymouth/ thrush which is why I got tested. I am so scared I gave it to my wife even though I have had negative tests. Never cheating ever again and I hope I don’t have it but I may have to face the piper. I have read the literature that says there is a 1/10000 rate of female to male contracting with one sex encounter and have seen that there are only 30 or so case studies of seronegative people but I am still scared to death.